Love is love. Love is it’s own language. Love should not be impacted by cultural mindsets. Culture has a way of making someone believe that a husband or wife should be and look a certain way. Cultural mindsets have a way, as even demonstrated through generations (as a way of living), of building unrealistic expectations of your spouse. There are cultural mindsets that are demonstrated through generations, which are opposite to what God made love to be. Love is love and it is it’s own language. God created love! Instead of bowing down to the cultural expectations passed down by words and demonstration of the parents and family members you should God straight to God…